Would it make it easier to do the right thing if you knew you only ever have two choices when confronted with problems? How much of your time and effort is spent on trying to control situations and other people, or resist or reject things that have already happened? Would it help to know the only place you need to exercise control is over yourself, and your reactions to the people and things around you? Do you often feel you're fighting a losing battle - the harder you try, the worse it gets? That's a sure sign you're in resistance, and ultimately trying to fight 'what is' can wear you down.

What's sometimes called the Law of Attraction states that the world works through resonance - we get what we send out in the form of thoughts and feelings. I call this law the Law of Emotional Resonance , because that more accurately describes how it works. Emotions are what vibrate within us, and create the sympathetic resonance which brings us more of the SAME emotion! Whatever you most want, you want because of the feelings you hope it will bring you. There's a much quicker and better way of getting those good feelings. In fact, the secret of success is to choose your feelings first, and then you automatically get the things that align, or resonate with, those feelings. You can learn about it in 5 Lessons, delivered by email or as one complete file, in the Applying Love e-course!

Emotions, thoughts and feelings all feed each other. In order to solve our problems we need to start taking control of our thoughts and feelings. We cannot attract different experiences unless we first learn to be responsible for, and choose which emotions we allow ourselves to feel. Our emotions in response to circumstances are under our control, though many of us aren't really aware of that. It's a choice many people never really get to make!

There are two circuits in our brains, involving the right and left amydala/hippcampus. Simply put, the right one is dedicated to Fear, the left one to Love. We 'see' the world through one or other of them, all the time. The Applying Love Method is a way to choose Love, deliberately, which brings us more of what we Love. When you apply the highest resonant frequency - Love - to your awareness, you will find problems solve themselves in amazing ways! You may have already experienced this but not realised what you were doing. The Applying Love Method teaches the steps involved in a logical way, so you will always know what you can do when you encounter problems. As long as we react inappropriately with Fear, which is how we're reacting when we perceive something as a problem, we will never be free of it! For more on emotions and the Law of Emotional Resonance, click here. However, the Applying Love Method is much more than a problem solver. When you get to see, again and again, the response you get from the world when you deliberatly apply Love, you will finally understand the way to live a happy, fulfilled life. You will have discovered your own power to create your Reality.

The 'Love' I'm talking about applying is much more than the feeling we call love. By Love (with a capital 'L'), I mean the multidimensional energy field of Unity - All That Is. The nature of this unifying Energy is Love, and you will prove that to yourself when you take the Applying Love email course. Some of the qualities and effects of the multidimensional Reality of Love are:

Love
Calm
Humility
Willingness
Appreciation
Kindness
Unity
Confidence
Empathy
Strength
Respect
Compassion
Patience
Understanding
Acceptance
Hope
Joy
Caring

Fear-based emotions are the energetic opposites; they drain us of life-force energy and lead to 'entropy' - disorder, decay, and disharmony in the energy systems of bodymind. (Because I want this page to be purely resonating with Love and Hope, I have listed the Fear-based emotions on a separate page!)

Because the energy of Love is everywhere, all the time, it can arrange and organise ANYTHING we need. Applying Love works by reversing the mental and emotional polarity of your 'instinctive' fear-based energy response to problems. (More on the definition of problems.)

If you'd like to feel one of the uplifting emotions of Love, right now, the Free Hugs Campaign is a wonderful example of someone who applied Love to solve a problem - the problem of not having anyone to hug! See the FreeHugs Campaign website and video here! When applying Love, the principle is to do the opposite of what your 'natural' feelings are in that moment - since they're resonating with Fear. Juan Mann offered Free Hugs in Sydney, after arriving there and seeing everyone else being greeted with smiles and hugs. He looked for a way of fulfilling his own need by giving hugs away! A win-win situation. Applying Love always leads to those win/win situations, in which needs are fulfilled. Interestingly, two performance artists who decided to copy the idea and video it, without the genuine need, didn't get anyone to take them up on their offer! The energy of Love wasn't there and the heart-to-heart connections just didn't happen. If you'd like to learn how to apply Love to your life, and watch your problems resolve themselves, the Applying Love Email Course will teach you, in five lessons. You receive the lessons direct to your mail box. You can take your time over each lesson and send for the next when you're ready; so you never get overwhelmed! Make the decision to learn how your mind and feelings work and how they create your reality. You will find even after the first lesson that you are finally seeing how you've attracted everything you presently have in your life. You will know how to change old bad habits of thinking and feeling; after doing the simple exercises of each lesson, any confusion and frustration you've been feeling will start to disappear.

Each lesson has in-depth discussion about the mind, the emotions, and brain circuitry; why we get trapped and lose touch with our enthusiasm, and an exercise to complete. Each lesson there is an exercise to do and you reply to me after doing each one and receive the next lesson. Remember, you can do the course at your own pace. If you'd like to sign up and start applying the power of Love to your life right now, to order online with Paypal, click the button below. To read more about the course see Applying Love course page.